Hardy said in the tragic romantic novel (my fav). "Sometimes a woman's love of being loved gets the better of her conscience, and though she is agonized at the thought of treating a man cruelly, she encourages him to love her while she doesn't love him at all. Then, when she sees him suffering, her remorse sets in, and she does what she can to repair the wrong."
The age around 18-22 is a stage of gr8 emotional (not to mention physical) transformation. Girls become women and boys, men. In context of Pakistani culture and society, both are not the masters of their destiny. so promises made initially with gr8est sincerity got broken. priorities change and no commitment lasts forever. only the few remain determined. we see the youth try to remain sincere but can't, it's their tragedy. if u r fond of some1, the relationship has to stand the test of time. now there is another thing in Pakistan. A typical Pakistani male expect her future bride to be a holiest of women who has has been waiting all life for him and never seen another man except him . now this is ridiculous. how many of us can profess never flirting or having an affair. u know what my real feelings r on this. extreme lovers are emotionally week people. they get themselves believe that certain girl is different from all other girls and keep on repeating this until they get to believe it for real. this is the technique used in self-hypnotism. so u didn't know a thing about someone but at the same time be in love. how strange. so it's the beauty which u got attracted to which is only skin deep. if u don't understand somebody how can u start a very strong relationship with them. it's a tale of deception and delusion.
Hellooooo! open your eyes. it's daytime!
posted by Mohsin @ 11:48 PM
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